Day 2: Sleep training

Well, I'm just in shock. This sleep training (second time around) is going very well.

After successfully placing baby to sleep last night, we enjoyed a relaxing night of homework and just hanging out. Seriously, it's like we're living another life. Sleep was even more restful as baby boy slept THE WHOLE NIGHT through. A milestone long overdue.

The day was even better than the night. I placed him down for a nap, he tried to kick up a little fuss and just sat there on his knees. I walked out of the room and silence. I went back to check on him 20mins later and he was still on his knees - I wondered if he was praying as we usually kneel for his bedtime prayer. I then went off to the lounge, placed an alarm clock for 2hrs and took my nap. He must've slept too as I only started hearing crying about 15mins after the alarm went off.

And now to report on this evening. After the usual bedtime routine, I placed baby boy in bed. He made a slight puppy dog whimper but remained laying down. I closed the door and...nothing. Just peace and quiet and a big boy sleeping in his own room. Oh, I never thought this day would ever come. My last attempt at sleep training baby was just pure failure. I was in an emotional mess. It made me feel horrible thinking I was a terrible mother. His cries would pierce my heart. I perservered for about two weeks and it just didn't work. Maybe I wasn't ready to let it work.

This second time around is a completely different game. I don't think I've done more research in anything as much as I did for sleep training methods. I've spoken to every mother in my network of friends and family. I've spent months planning the timing, the peaceful environment and the strategy. There was previous work too as I was advised by a friend to introduce a teddy that he'd become attached to. This teddy was to not leave the crib so that it symbolizes sleep and something familiar. So about a month ago I chose an oversize cheetah that now doubles up as his pillow.

The life of a mother is just so interesting. This little bit of successful gives me more confidence regarding potty training and getting off the boob. Baby steps.

I do look forward to the day when he'll actually be excited to be in his own room. That would be a sweet cherry on top.